On why i never get men...

What is it with men? First they approach you then they back off when you show interest?

There's this fella who did a random thing on FB. So i decided what the heck, life's a game, i did the random thing back.

And before i know it, we started chatting and wasnt too bad. He did not appear to be desperate or pervertic or have any stalker like syndromes.

But what irks me is, i started to like chatting with him. He makes a great conservationist. Being a gemini, i thrive on good conversations and human contact. That and the fact, i thought he was one of the last species of smart men to exist in my community.

But there is only so much chats i can initiate now can i.

I don't like being cheap or being the kind of woman that approaches guy. 

Call me a coward and old fashioned. :P not my style. And yes i know the feminist in me cringes to hear that :P

So here's the thing, if the fella was interested, he would make effort. He would initiate chats first, he would ask me questions about myself instead of the other way all times. But he doesn't! Do people like having 1 way conversations?

And so i came to a conclusion that i was nothing more than a time-filler online.

And i'm not going to waste anymore of my time with online snobs or men with egos. I have been friendly enough without going to the point of being cheap. 

And there's that.